14 Oct
Posted by: Darren Hardy in: SUCCESS
I’m too old, too young or too poor. I don’t have the education. I’m not from the right family. I don’t have the connections, etc., ad nauseam.
I feel one of our jobs here at SUCCESS is to abolish the excuses we were fed to believe for why we are not living up to our potential and achieving the dreams we imagine.
In previous issues we’ve shown that the greatest entrepreneurs and achievers throughout history have come from varied backgrounds—whether born into wealth or poverty, the children of slaves or immigrants, college dropouts or intellectual giants, men or women, black or white or Asian or Hispanic. We’ve shown there is no particular cloth from which achievers are cut; they create their own destiny.
In this issue we set out to prove you can find success at any age. In the forthcoming pages we will demonstrate, through the examples of others, that there is no timeline for success—no invisible clock that says you have to be a certain age before you can achieve your goals, or that says your chance has passed, regardless of how many candles grace your birthday cake.
Having fought age discrimination myself as a young entrepreneur I can tell you firsthand, age is an illusion—for both the doer and the viewer. Like most things, age is a mindset, an attitude. You are as old as you think you are, and thus act, project and interact with the world around you. This projection is what everyone sees and feels from you, thus they respond accordingly. I have seen 80-year-olds (Paul J. Meyer, featured in the June/July issue, comes to mind) act more vivacious, youthful and energetic than most 18-year-olds. I have also met 18-year-olds more sensible, resourceful and seemingly wiser than many “veterans” in executive positions. Age is not the limitation; one’s attitude about age is.
Don’t believe me; believe Ani Patel, a 13-year-old social entrepreneur who is doing what adult onlookers thought was impossible. Then there is Dara Torres, the 41-year-old mother and Olympian who competed in Beijing against women young enough to be her children. And there is the great Tony Hawk, who has defied age on both ends of the spectrum. A pro athlete at 14, the best in the world at 16, and now, at 40 (considered “grandpa” age in skateboarding), he remains not only relevant, but in fact at the very top of a multibillion-dollar industry he helped create (hear a snippet from my interview with Tony)
So, the age card is shredded. You are free to achieve your greatest dreams no matter what age you start after them. Hey, why not start now?
“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have always imagined.” —Henry David Thoreau
Darren Hardy
SUCCESS Publisher and Editorial Director
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13 Responses
Deborah Edmonds
14/Oct/2008 1Working with a program that puts people 55 and older into unsubsidized employment, I have seen people walk in that were in their 60s, 70s, and 80s and stress to me that want a job. I have seen these same people get hired. I have seen younger people come in and tell me they will not be hired because they are too old, too this and too that. They gave me all kind of reasons why they could not be hired. I knew the real reason they could not be hired. They had to learn to believe in themselves. They had to dream about that job, desire that job, and then work to get that job. They had to be willing to find out what they were doing wrong and make it right. When they believed in themselves, others would believe in them also.
Maria
14/Oct/2008 2All Excuses Abolished - You CAN Achieve Success At Any Age!
This article reminds me of my mother, who in her 50’s is just learning how to read
and for the first time in her life she is relizing that her goals can be reached and it’s never to late to make your dreams come true.
Tom Bivins
14/Oct/2008 3I am starting over at 43 and on my way to success.
Corrie Wilder
15/Oct/2008 4Hi Darren,
Thanks for this. My business partner and I are at what we feel is a relatively risk-averse point in our lives (we are both raising and nurturing families and both maintain full time employment) but our business idea and passion for making it real was just too strong to ignore. We are slowly and steadily building our business with amazing support from each other, from our husbands, children, extended family and friends. Sometimes the stress is palpable (like my new inability to sleep soundly, hence the ungodly hour) but more often the excitement and drive to succeed keeps us grounded and focused on the future.
I’m going to print out that Thoreau quote and post it in my office above the computer screen, where I’ll read it every day.
Regards,
Corrie Wilder
Managing Partner
GRiPPiES no-slip adhesives
http://www.grippiesonline.com
Lynn Burchard
15/Oct/2008 5Hi Darren,
My 7 year old son loves Tony Hawk and is an avid skateboarder, snowboarder and BMX bike rider. He is really talented for his age and is so determined when he practices that his drive and persistence speak for themselves. When the Success Magazine’s issue with Tony Hawk hit the newstands, I bought it right away. (By the way, there was only 1 copy left.) This is fantastic for my neck of the woods…Timmins, Ontario, Canada.
Anyway, I love this article, read the magazine and listened to the CD included. Terrific stuff. Keep up the great articles and content information for tis magazine.
Your fan,
Lynn Burchard
Lynn Burchard
15/Oct/2008 6Hi Darren,
My 7 year old son loves Tony Hawk and is an avid skateboarder, snowboarder and BMX bike rider. He is really talented for his age and is so determined when he practices that his drive and persistence speak for themselves. When the Success Magazine’s issue with Tony Hawk hit the newstands, I bought it right away. (By the way, there was only 1 copy left.) This is fantastic for my neck of the woods…Timmins, Ontario, Canada.
Anyway, I love this article, read the magazine and listened to the CD included. Terrific stuff. Keep up the great articles and content information for this magazine.
Your fan,
Lynn Burchard
Ray Williams
15/Oct/2008 7In regards to acheiving at any age. I am a 55 year old African-American with “No” college education.
After being unemploye for nearly two years In 2007 I started a home based consulting business helping consumers resolve mortgage and other financial issues. As a former mortgage loan officer and credit consultant I combined my skills in order to help struggling consumers management their personal finances.
With the current economic situation and some marketing, my business increased 341% in first half of 2008 and I am planning to hire 10 fulltime employees in the first quarter of 2009. I am also planning to open 3 additional locations in 2090. I am also planning to do seminars for people 50+ who want to
start a business.
Deborah Wall
15/Oct/2008 8I love the motivation I glean from your articles. This one (as always) touched just the right spot. I’m 42 and have just written my first children’s book. My choices are to send it off to a publisher cross my fingers and every other bit of me that’s crossable then wait 3-6 months to hear my fate, or believe in myself, my talent and self publish. I have chosen just that. Each time I receive another success snippet I reaffirm my fearless self and am able to live more fully. So thank you so much for being the positive press this world is so in need of.
Regards,
Deborah Wall
Melbourne, Australia
Jennifer Pearsall
15/Oct/2008 9I am deaf and 26 year old. I am woman and work in construction for 6 year!
Right now the economy is bad and it hurt my job in construction. Anytime my car will be repo! And will lose my job because it 1 hour drive to work. Thank for network market come to America because we have freedom to do that. In some other country, they cant set their own business. We are very lucky!
Why you worry about your age? Is it make you stop or say “cant do this”?
You are in America!!! That is freedom!!! It your chance to take that opportunity to build the business!
I am deaf, there lot of discrimination from job and people. It not matter what age, it still discrimination.
Dont let anyone steal your dream!!
Blessed the America for our freedom!
Your power Fan
Jennifer Pearsall
Tracy Winston
16/Oct/2008 10Coming from a severely dysfunctional background, my dream was to obtain a job/career, purchase a home, have reliable transporation and help others. In my late thirties, I realized that I had accomplished my childhood dream. Then, at age 40, I was introduced to a new mindset. What I have learned since being introduced to the entrepreneur field, will take me into my second life’s dream (to build an international company while helping others to reach their life’s goal). I am 42 and am at the beginning stages of the rest of my life. Also, My Fiance is 44 and about to start college to pursue his life long dream. How exciting and wonderful to witness others “abolish the excuses” and run after their dreams.
Thanks for this article and the ones to come.
Pedro Alvarez
19/Oct/2008 11I am 47 years old rase and born on Puerto Rico(usa) now I know that there nothing will stop me to rich my goals and drems on my life Thank God for this country and for success Magazine for all I been learned.
Dominique Fletcher
21/Oct/2008 12Wow, I am so happy to see the topic of Excuses being addressed! It is amazing how many individuals use excuses to hinder themselves from Success. Although I have a degree and was able to earn a six-figure income in my early 20s, I did not have all the cards set up in line for me. In fact, I had to overcome several obstacles that could’ve turned into excuses if I allowed them to including my mom being deceased at 14, my absentee father that still overpromises and underdelivers, and being in a blended family where I was constantly picked on at school. Success is not an accident and can definitely be achieved at any age if you are willing to work at it!
Dominique Fletcher
Ms Nique Enterprises, LLC
http://www.MsNique.com
http://www.Blog.MsNique.com
Vicki Jardine
26/Oct/2008 13I am so grateful to be a part of the Success ‘community’ that supports and encourages qualities and attitudes that lead to success for one and all.
As a child, I wanted to ‘do something GREAT’ with my life. Then as I grew up I had my babies and threw myself into parenting, seeing that as ‘doing something GREAT’, which it undoubtedly is.
I became a school teacher and also a life coach and I began reading and reading and reading. I read about successful people and I read what successful people wrote, and biographies and autobiographies….and now Success Magazine, ‘cos that’s what ‘Achievers Read’ (smile).
I am telling you this, why?
Because I am 51 and have only recently begun to do as my heart and soul is yearning for me to do.
I have stepped out into the unknown, left the safety and respectability of my teaching profession, to follow my heart and ‘do something GREAT’.
I have some supporters around me, but on the whole people cannot understand why I would leave a job to do something that is not as secure. What if you fail? Why do think you have something so special to offer? What if no-one is interested in what you have to say or do? What about your retirement fund, won’t that suffer? Wouldn’t it be better to keep that as a hobby and stay in your job?
These are the general comments that are said to me about what I am doing.
Taking the steps needed to fulfill dreams and goals requires absolute belief in the dreams and goals in the first place. Whatever it is that you want to do…just do it, but do it with conviction. Who’s to say you won’t inspire others to follow their hearts as well. That’s how I look at it.
I have developed a program for parents helping them to inspire and bring out their children’s self-confidence. Informed by my years of teaching, the trends in parenting and the demanding lifestyle parents are subject to I have designed this program called Permission to Shine, with busy parents in mind.
I remember how distressing it was as a parent to know that you only get one shot to be a good parent and to not even really know what to do and how best to do things for my own children.
Time just slips by and before you know it, your children are all grown up. Their ideals and their personalities, fairly well ’set’. Too late to instill things in them like confidence, self-esteem and responsibility. They will then have to struggle to find those things for themselves, like you have possibly.
If age is no barrier, then it also applies to those amazing little creatures most of us have running around our homes - our dearly beloved children. Each of them holds their own potential. Each one just waiting for their parents to help them unleash it.
I believe parents want to help their children but let’s face it, we parent a lot like our parents parented us. And this is despite not wanting to even!
That’s why I have designed the Permission To Shine Program. It gives parents a lot of practical things they can do to bring out their child’s confidence and self-esteem and ultimately their dreams and potential.
I am excited about the future and so grateful to have access to magazines like Success. As I said in the beginning, I love being a part of a community that supports and encourages healthy and beneficial attitudes and qualities that lead to success.
God Bless You and Yours
Vicki Jardine
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