shoot me an email at sharmas21@yahoo.com. I’ll share my personal experience on how I changed myself from workaholic to normal work life. May be that will change your husband’s priorities.

Sanjay

My score is 12 out of 18, 66%. Much better than expected. One reason why I am doing better this year compared to last year is that my own success program started few weeks before your 12 step program and I am strictly following it. Interestingly some of your points were already in my program and some I added later.

One question: Do you know why the number of comments have significantly reduced since your first post of this 12 step program?
I think people are too busy in implementing the steps you have suggested (:- to post their comments.

To Lisa:
To be blunt, the resource to deal with your workaholic spouse is nowhere. The workaholic person will change himself or herself when the RIGHT time comes. To work hard or work little is a personal choice based on person’s priority and personal goals.

Sanjay

[DARREN HARDY] Lisa, did my wife ask you to ask this question??
Talk to him, he might not even know fully how you feel. We (men) tend to focus on what is urgent and important (which work always is) versus what is truly important (which relationships, family and most especially our significant other) to us. If he knows the extremity of your feelings and you alert him to them, you will then enter that important and urgent quadrant. Don’t leave it up to him reading your mind, sit down with him and have a heart to heart, not an argument, rather an emotional conversation where you really reveal your sense of loneliness… that’ll wake him up.