I wrote an article for Jeffrey Gitomer’s ezine recently in promotion of his SUCCESS Challenge on the SUCCESS Blog. It’s an article I think you will benefit from too.
I got into real estate when I was only 20 years old. I remember entering an office of 44 veteran agents who all had experienced track records and thick Rolodexes of past clients. One of them even called me a “naive snot-nosed kid” at one meeting.
That did it. I got pissed, and then I got even.
In 90 days I was outselling the entire office combined—with more listings and more escrow closings!
How did I do it?
I mastered the well-known but rarely practiced Pareto Principle. Most people (especially real estate agents) spend 80-90% of their time performing busy and unproductive activities. Maybe 10-20% of their time directly relates to making money. As in every sales profession, you are only making money when you are in front of a transacting client or a prospect who can become one. I call it the “show time” event. You get paid the big bucks because of what you can do in front of a client or prospect. Everything else distracts you from this goal, thus costing you money.
As a real estate agent, there are hundreds of unproductive activities you can do to rationalize that you’re ‘working’: putting lock boxes on doors, shuffling escrow paperwork, doing open houses, taking “floor time,” putting signs out, driving around “looky-loo” buyers, etc. In reality, there are only three things (“show time” events) you do that make money:
1) pitching a listing,
2) negotiating a contract, and
3) prospecting to get more of 1 and 2.
Everything else that’s a productivity “time suck” can and should be delegated.
I became so obsessive about monitoring my productive time that I would wear a stopwatch around my neck (yes, in meetings, at the store—great conversation starter!). I stopped and started it all day long—“OFF” when going to the bathroom, “BS-ing” in the hallway, waiting for the person to pick up while the phone rings, driving from appointment to appointment; “ON” only when actually engaged in one of my three (see above) high-value “show time” events.
The first day I clocked my productivity, after an exhausting 12-hour day, I was floored when it only read 11 minutes, 56 seconds. At first I thought it was broken. But no, after 12 hours of “work” I had managed less than 12 minutes of revenue-generating productive labor. WOW, did I learn a valuable lesson! From that moment on, I wore my stopwatch religiously every day to improve my actual productive time.
It is SHOCKING to realize how little time salespeople actually spend selling each day. Sometimes I would work like mad all day and only clock 14 minutes. FOURTEEN MINUTES?! My goal became at least 2 hours a day, every day, day after day. As a result of that focus on real sales productivity, I became the No. 1 agent in the office during my first year in the business. I was No. 1 in the city at age 21, and then the entire county of 3,000 real estate agents by age 22 (in a real estate market as crappy as it is today—so no excuses).
What are your few real moneymaking activities? What are your “show time” events? How much time are you actually spending on them? Want to devastate your competition? Are you brave enough to take my “Stopwatch Challenge”? What are some of your favorite sales productivity techniques? Share them in the comments below!
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54 Responses
Nick Vandekar
10/Nov/2009 1Great entry, as a Realtor it is so easy to get sidelined by the other stuff. We are fearful of letting go of this because then we would have to produce, by having our busy stuff as you say we can “feel’ busy and productive although we are not hitting the goals we want to hit.
chuck kennedy
10/Nov/2009 2Its true nobody should waste time. but how do you afford to delegate when you cant pay your monthly bills. alos to be the picky about yuor time will put people off. and make a jerk out of you thats what I don get reply chuck kennedy 314-330-0999
[DARREN HARDY] Chuck, if you are unable to pay your monthly bills, it sounds like something needs to change - particularly the allocation of your time and energy that has led up to his outcome. Ultimately you cannot afford not to delegate certain time burdens so you can spend the necessary time on your highest, best and most profitable use. Here is additional information to help: http://darrenhardy.success.com/2009/05/wa-step10/ and http://darrenhardy.success.com/2009/05/wa-step10-howto/
Drew Ritchie
10/Nov/2009 3I’ve never heard better advice in my seven years in real estate! I’m very curious now on the amount of time I spend every day doing IPA’s (Income Producing Activities). Suppose I’m off to buy a stop watch! Thanks Darren!
Gaye Lindfors
10/Nov/2009 4Such great advice! It translates into the job seeking world too. How much time are job seekers spending on talking to people who can connect them with opportunities? It’s so easy to sit in front of the computer and look at the job boards. Not much of a high-value activity when that’s all you do.
Thanks for the great reminder, Darren!
chuck kennedy
10/Nov/2009 5Have not received an anwer from any of my comments. I would think it arrogant behavior of running around and cutting everyone andeveerything off with a stop watch. people would think your arrognant. thsi makes no sense ck
[DARREN HARDY] See above Chuck and it’s OK if it doesn’t work for you. BTW, the stop watch is not to cut everyone else off, rather to cut yourself off from unproductive, time wasting tasks and bring your full awareness (by specific measurement) to the time you ARE spending on the right and productive activities.
Kenneth Kushner
10/Nov/2009 6This is information to take with you to use or reject. Whining gets you nowhere. Take what you can and move forward. If you feel it would not benefit you to operate in this fashion, thank the universe for the information and keep moving forward. The world is full of critics use what is pertinent , then move on. Bottom line here is to ask yourself,”How can I be more productive and make better use of the time with which I have been blessed?” Then take action on the answer. Thanks Darren.
Peter
10/Nov/2009 7I liked it. So much useful material. I read with great interest.
chuck kennedy
10/Nov/2009 8You like many self helpers out there today paint a rosey scenario with out adequate specific details . like how to delegate when yu only have x aomount of money in the bank.Why dont you try getting involved with people . and proving what you say. if you cant then you are a fake. making blanket statement with any facts is just not right. Lets see I have $1200.00 in the bank I will go out and hire 8 assistants and pay them $8.50 an hour. well where does that maney come from. We are real working people this not the partridge family hour , My monthly mortage payment is $1000 so tell me how do I hire 8 assistants. wow. you have no answers . If you do lets hear them. this is the real world. Not a Dr phil episode. or tv. please get real. Nor can I afford to run around and cut everyone off when their talking to me. I could watch leav it to beaver to all day but not likely useful in todays world
chuck kennedy
10/Nov/2009 9By the sound of your adivse Im guessing you have 40- to 50 assisatnts a day . while your out playing golf and then come into the office at 420 sign a few forms take your paycheck and go home. wow what a life. I ve just never seen or experienced anything like that. I just can t believe any of that. If youve got it that good then please teach me Im waiting.!!!! I ll give you half of the first months pay!
Brad Phillips
10/Nov/2009 10Darren, you should hire Chuck as a motivational speaker/writer. As long as one of your 40-50 assistants can hit the spell check for him.
Rich Vaaler
10/Nov/2009 11Darren is absolutely right on this one ! I’ve been in this business 30 years, own a commercial brokerage company and agree 100% with him. Take advice from people who are successful like Darren. SUCCESS leaves clues !
chuck kennedy
10/Nov/2009 12I have been fighting people like you guys my whole life. Let some little guy in India do your work for .50cents an hour while good hard working americans starve. you guys either inherited or walked into a good job. It happens all the time. THis Darren wont even retract the serena williams story. I wont beleive any of you until I meet and talk with you face to face. Gentelman your writting things that good honest hard working people are looking for please be truthful. I ll bet someone even wrote this story and Darren came in and signed the forms. My number is posted I dare any one of you to show me how to use 1% of this information. My phone is posted Come on lets see if its real. -You guys are so far up the scale You cant even realte to the common man. Im working my hear out for $30,000 a year in the mortgae business. for nothing. — Just what I though fakers again chuck kennedy
chuck kennedy
10/Nov/2009 13sorry rich vaaaler I mispelled to words in that the 2 words relate and heart out. sorry I dont have an assistant like you. I do my own work. Lets see if success magazine is worth anything and will proove what they write. ck
chuck kennedy
10/Nov/2009 14Ill bet you guys had your assistants post these comments
[DARREN HARDY] Hey Chuck, it’s me… yes really me responding, but the last time. Don’t do as suggested (and yes proven through my personal, direct, real experience), you are probably right, it won’t work for you. Whatever does work for you write it on your blog. Wish you all the best Chuck, really I do.
David Hammond
10/Nov/2009 15The main point of all this is to focus on the activities that will give you the most return on your investment (time). We may not have a lot of cash and assets, but our most valuable asset is our time! What we do with that time will determine how big our bank accounts will get. Take it for what it’s worth.
Tracy
10/Nov/2009 16WOW Darren I love the energy - I have been working this principle for the last 16 days after I read one of your empowering articles. I have been putting together a scented - yes scented webinar. First of it’s kind and very complicated but the advice I received from your various sources - it all fits.
To your point it could be real-estate, consulting, sales, what ever you are doing the stop watch is true. People, in general, have a very difficult time focusing on the principles at hand. In your case at the time - making money. My case - launching something new to the social media world. My friend - her family. If we actually listen more, shut the noise off in our heads, focus on the task and complete the goal - SHOW TIME is a real challenge that takes practice, and many of us use other stuff to avoid the hard and difficult task of getting it done! The 80 - 20 rule truly is the point to “show time”.
I was working again - re-reading, not trusting in my efforts, allowing the clock to stop and realizing that it is SHOW TIME, thanks for your e-mail, timing is everything.
CH
10/Nov/2009 17CK, don’t shoot the messenger, but you actually you misspelled:
believe
Gentlemen
writing
relate
mortgage
And what about punctuation?
And NO, I don’t have an assistant … I AM an assistant but not to any of these guys!
Darren is simply sharing a system that worked for him that might come in handy for someone else. You can take it or leave it.
CH
Ed
10/Nov/2009 18Chuck, there is a very simple philosophy at play in this article/blog. The more time you spend specifically doing activities that actually generate revenue, the more likely you are to increase your revenue– it is that simple. The use of a stopwatch is simply one way to monitor how much time you actually do it. Most businesses like to track all sorts of numbers regarding productivity, profitability per unit/employee/etc. If you were to engage in applying metrics to yourself, you could likely improve yourself– that’s it. Use a stop watch; hide the stop watch in your pocket; make notes on your iphone/blackberry/etc.; use old fashioned paper to track what you get done– they are all means to an end. It doesn’t have to do with you hiring assistants. I am an employer, and have hired many sales reps. I am hands-off at first, but when they start proving they can’t produce, I start making them fill out time tracking sheets to show me where their time goes. The first day or two, without fail, they have 2-3 hour blocks where they were in the office, but only managed to make 10-15 calls (which last 2-3 minutes on average). Then I have to squeeze information out of them as to why they only got 20-30 minutes of work done in 2-3 hours and they hem and haw. Some get it and try to improve, others don’t and fail. Perhaps you can see that what I force reps to do is similar to what Mr. Hardy is suggesting– except, that you will be much happier if you can achieve an increase in productivity on your own as Mr. Hardy suggests instead of having a boss putting the screws to you. I admit if I were a better manager I would be more proactive in helping them initially before they got entrenched in bad habits, but, like you, I get too busy with other tasks which I wish I could delegate… but I blame that on me and not on someone else. At some point, it comes down to you, and if you feel like you are doing everything you can and there is no room for improvement, then that is your first problem to address– there’s always room for improvement. Maybe you can schedule time-sucking admin to specific times, or ask your boss for assistance because you want to do better. Just do something aside from being bitter. Good luck.
Dave De Arcos
10/Nov/2009 19Outstanding article. I’m actually almost afraid to put a stopwatch on myself, but I will. What a great idea and opportunity to grow!
BTW - Sorry Chuck. One of your comments speaks volumes, “I have been fighting people like you guys my whole life.” Well, how’s that been working out for you? Like Jim Rohn says, “I suggest you don’t do that anymore”. Why don’t you LEARN from them (and Darren) instead?
Don Roulo
10/Nov/2009 20Darren,
Right on! I travel and do business and financial seminars and courses. I also preach at various churches. Even to churches I stress the Pareto principle. Something I read inside your stop watch and what is productive time…FEAR! Just this Sunday I preached a sermon to a local church about FEAR OF SUCCESS. People will focus on the 80% (non-productive) work due to fear of success. When you see them and ask them they are very busy, but busy doesn’t mean productive. They sabotage themselves. They major on the minors…very common for FEAR OF SUCCESS. Fear of success looks like this…plan to the utmost detail, read every book on the subject, get advice from experts, do all the research, tell everyone what you are going to do, write out a 3 year plan…and then…don’t pull the trigger…don’t do the 20% necessary for success.
Tell me if this sounds familiar to anyone. My brief story. In college I played football. I was the 2nd strongest guy on the team. I was the 2nd fastest lineman on the team. I could run and sprint. I could do all the drills better than most etc. BUT, I couldn’t take my A+ training skills and translate that to the game. I was very average. I neded to focus my time different and I in hindsight had a severe case of fear of success.
Thanks Darren for the insight on this one. Great as always…
Don Roulo
[DARREN HARDY] Thanks for sharing your testimony Don… and keep spreading the good word against fearing success!
John Wagner
10/Nov/2009 21Chuck
Stop fighting with yourself and change your life! Listen to Jim Rohn’s CD “Challenge to Succeed” or read Paul J. Meyer’s books. Life isn’t meant to be as difficult as you are making it for yourself. “Like attracts like”. As Jim Rohn says, “You will only have the money, success, health, relationships and prestige that match your level of Personal Development”. Please invest in your personal development and I wish you the BEST on your new journey!
JRW
Linda C
10/Nov/2009 22Darren interesting thoughts on how I have been spending the majority of my time in real estate.
Can you suggest any articles on how to get more “in front time” in order to pitch the listing. The thought
of door knocking makes me feel like I appear desperate to the homeowner.
[DARREN HARDY] Linda, successful people are willing to do what unsuccessful people are not. No way around it, prospecting is hard–and that is a good thing because your competitors will quit when it gets hard.
Most effective prospecting in real estate I found in this order: 1) expired listings, 2) for sale by owners, 3) door to door, 4) phone to phone. There is no shortcut. It then becomes a numbers game - how much time can you spend everyday doing the above 4.
See Todd Smith’s advice below - he too made big money selling real estate starting from nothing.
Shawn Phillips
11/Nov/2009 23Darren,
Ah, yes… “Focus and the Pareto principle,”… I like it.
Has me thinking about getting a stop watch around my neck. Could use the pressure focus.
Used to find myself leveraging the Pareto quite a lot in the EAS days, managing customer focus and demand. But these days I’m the customer that needs the focus.
Thanks,
Shawn
Emmanuel
11/Nov/2009 24Truly, I think chuck is sick, he is being hunted by the past and he is just refusing to be real with discipline and diligence, which is, what Darren has taken time to share with all who are ready to take that step to bring a certain change in their situations, as for chuck, he wants a miracle without work! Thanks Darren and everyone else, ‘TIME’ is the one universal platform everyone has to make and create the change we desire in our situations.
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Craig
11/Nov/2009 26So true. Unemployed here and very unproductive. In a rut but going to get out. I agree with the stopwatch thing. I do have a stopwatch and will use it every day to fill in my time with productive things to get a job and start a new business.
I enjoy reading the articles….just need to implement a plan.
Todd Smith
11/Nov/2009 27Darren,
As usual your comments are right on. I became the 15th ranked real estate agent in the U.S. by age 27 because I picked up the phone and prospected. I had a note on my phone that said, “What is the best use of my time right now!” While all the other agents were sitting around doing busy work, I was making cold calls to for-sale-by-owners and expired listings. While I did not use the stop watch method, I made a daily prioritized “To Do” list, and guess what the top priority was each day? Prospecting! I committed to spending two hours prospecting every morning before doing anything else.
Not only was it easier to start the day prospecting, but the people I was calling seemed to be in a better mood first thing in the morning. I never felt comfortable prospecting, but I knew if I as going to be successful, I would need to push myself to to do, what I knew I should do, even when I did not feel like doing it.
Chuck, if you are still reading these posts, I made $250,000 my first year selling real estate without ONE assistant. I was a broke 23 year old at the time. If you will pick up the phone with a positive attitude your results will change.
Todd
Tracy
11/Nov/2009 28So much advise for Chuck - do you think he is not interested. BUT This is agreat example how you all are not using the stop watch to accomplish your task - focusing on others energy and allowing Chucks Energy to be in the spot light.
Nice Lesson Chuck to all - Thank you.
Wesley Clark
11/Nov/2009 29Darren,
This is an area I ALWAYS have to work on. It is so easy to get distracted on less important activities, and sometimes at the end of the day my productivity was, well, “unproductive”. Great advice you provided (as always) to help us be more aware of our the use of our time.
Chuck’s initial post actually included a good question, “How do you afford to delegate when you can’t pay your monthly bills?” Maybe you can’t, which is fine and that may be the case for a lot of people, but don’t focus on what you CAN’T do, what CAN you do? We CAN be more aware of how we spend our time. We CAN get better at doing mundane tasks which will save time. We CAN get more organized. We CAN group activities to save time. We CAN eliminate time-wasters (tv, unproductive social networking, etc.). We CAN plan our days more effectively. There is a lot we CAN do to improve our lives, the question is, are you willing to DO it?
Wes
John H
11/Nov/2009 30Darren, a great article. Thanks for posting it. I think many people are seeking a “magic formula” for success. The key is find a method that works for you, then apply HARD WORK. You identified where you were being unproductive, and then focused your energies on what was going to produce results, avoiding “busy work”. The bottom line is it requires directed action:
Vision - Action = Daydream
Some have posted why this won’t work. My question to them would be this: If you don’t like the results that you are getting, why wouldn’t you change your methodologies?
Overall, I find Success Magazine to be a valuable resource, even if I get one good idea from it a year (which I get more than that), then it is a worthwhile investment.
Keep up the good work.
chuck kennedy
11/Nov/2009 31First off if any of your stories were the slight bit true you would state you name phone and company then we could verify you are real person. I m well aware of having a staff memeber write a response. 2nd minister - wow theres a tough job I lli take that one. 3rd I could say anything none of you based any of your statements on fact. 4th Imagine going to your minister minister says sorry I only have 5 seconds tot talk. then your wife sorry I have 6 seconds to talk 3 rd your kid sorry I have 7 seconds to talk. wow thats wierd oh how about a customer sorry I have 3 seconds to talk. chuck kennedy none of that would make you a popular or succesful person .
S AM I
11/Nov/2009 32Chuck reminds me of “All out Saul”
Hopefully his pain can be eased or carried differently too
chuck kennedy
11/Nov/2009 33Now lets recap the USA situaiton Right now were loosing 2 wars, Greatest recession in the history of the USA, unemplyement %11 , record forclosures, Record gas prices, Record deficit.a miltary rampage- please read the papers on your golf break. And this magazine puts Dr phil and Serena Williams on the cover. Incredible Then the owner has his assistant rehash a 1950s article on hiring assistatnts. Incredible. And hes excited about a book on Eisenhower!! wow Im sure all you guys have enough cash put away to operate this tax right off. But Im telling you people are looking for answers and you let them down again. But of course youve got your money why should you care. Please some real methods that could help us !!! chuck kennedy
Romuald
11/Nov/2009 34Thank you Darren a great wake up call for all of us to stop and realize how much time we waste
including responding to fellow bloggers. Words will never change people they have to want to change.
chuck kennedy
11/Nov/2009 35also not one of you picked up the phone and directly offered to fly me to your office and show me how you are making these mega millions. which only proves me right. Im from Missouri the show me state. IF any of you are worth your salt except the challenge if your so confident you right all the time lets see it chuck kennedy 314-330-0999. Believe me if your right I will personally give you your a great testamony in your publications. come I dare you . Im a nice guy I just want results. .IM waiting
chuck kennedy
11/Nov/2009 3612:35 and nobody has yet to accept my challenge. ck
chuck kennedy
11/Nov/2009 37Im punching clock until I get a personal response . ck
chuck kennedy
11/Nov/2009 381;47 and still no response Im using the stop watch lesson. its not working ck
Jack Studnicky
11/Nov/2009 39Darren, I loved your message and as you know, I’ve heard it before and KNOW IT IS TRUE… I have tought a similar use of the 80/20 for years. My top guy earned a million dollars last year selling TRUMP OCEAN CLUB in Panama. He is a great student and has to report to me each week with his PERFORMANCE and PROJECTION REPORT… As good as he is. he can only get half of his time into the productive category. Your old friend, jack studnicky
Don Roulo
11/Nov/2009 40I wanted to respond directly to Chuck, but I am not sure anything said to you Chuck will help you at this point. The “minister” in me says, “Don’t cast your pearls before swine.” You do not want help…you want someone to do it for you or you want attention. Either way will never get out of the rut your in unless you change your thinking first.
You missed the entire point of the article!! It was to keep track of your time in some way to see what produces results and what doesn’t. Then focus your time on what gets results. I have not “arrived” yet Chuck. I don’t have an assistant…don’t need one now, but when I do… I will get one. Guess what I do Chuck since I don’t have an assitant…I DO IT MYSELF!! I work longer and harder now, so that in the future I will be able to change that.
To the comment made about being a “minister…now theres a job I would like”… No you wouldn’t! You are too selfish. You only seek for yourself. I have been in ministry AND business for 17 years. I tell anyone who seeks ministry to find something else if they can…why? It is a calling, not a job. 3am calls because someone died…someone’s in jail…people talk bad about you because you drive a car that is used, but newer than theirs…you try to help people with counsel and they blame you for their own problems…VERY LITTLE MONEY IN MINISTRY. We have used business to make our calling of ministry happen.
I have owned a successful insurance and investment business…no assistant. I co-own a successful and profitable catering business with my wife…no assistant. I travel and speak at churches and do courses on personal finance and business finanace…no assistant. My wife and I will launch a calendar soon that will help people pray for their children everyday…no assitant. I cut my own grass and the neighbors grass because they are older and not in the best health…no assistant. I fix my own dishwasher when it breaks down…no assistant I repair the cars and household items to the best of my ability…no assistant. I spend my own money and go overseas to the Ukraine to teach on leadership, finance and marriage…no assistant. I stay up till 1 or 2 in the morning doing my own research…no assitant.
Chuck maybe you need to have the humbling experience when overseas in a 3rd world country (Ukraine) and all through a church service people come and hand you money while speaking. You know they only make about $250 US per month and yet they give to you. Tears stream down your face because you know they understand something…GIVING. To answer your next question Chuck. My wife and I took all the money from that service and bought things for the local orphanage and went there personally to give the items to the boys and girls…then we took more of our own money and bought shoes for the boys there.
Chuck…quit being selfish and find a way to give to someone else. You have a hard heart and you need to soften it before you can receive any information Darren or anyone else tries to give to you.
In closing…I have had the blessing of having met and talked with a gentlemen by the name of Peter J. Daniels of Australia. He was a very close friend of Norman Vincent Peale. The man is a millionaire over and over…probably close to a billionaire is my guess. Chuck, people like Peter think different than you. People like Darren Hardy think differnt than you. They look at other’s success in life and say…”I can do that”. They are elevated by others success stories. You want to try to drag people down to your level. Why don’t you stop that and take the good in what others say and do that works and be inspired instead of conspiring to tear them down.
Chuck..YOU CAN DO IT!! Reach out and help someone else and soften your heart. It will help change your perspective.
We have been able to do all we do on very little in comparison to some Chuck. It is changing because I WILL NOT EVER GIVE UP OR GIVE IN TO STINKIN’ THINKIN’!!
Don
chuck kennedy
11/Nov/2009 41never met a minister that wasnt making over $60k per year. when my parents minister retitred the church gave him a new lincoln. free. plus retirement. I will take that gig. try being a mortgage loan officer today you will wish you were dead . I ve got some poors guys loan in with underwriter for 7 days he has already moved into the house and they still wont give us anwser the owner is threatneng to kick him out on friday everyone says Im bugging them for an answer my answer hell yes. Its basically me aginst the world at this point. try that on. you mr minister maybe a good guy. but here is st louis all the ministers are mega rich. IN fact all the minister in St. Louis make over $100k for maybe 10-24 hours work tops. How do I know Im a loan officer I see ther taxes and w2s. Ive given to people till it hurts and still barely makeing it. Ive spent over $40 in greetings cards just this week not one person called me to thank me. so believe me brother Im workin ck
chuck kennedy
11/Nov/2009 42In st louis never met a minister that want driving a bmw or mercedes even did a loan for a minister in springfield mo he was drinving a corvette convertible. red. wow yes indeed I will take that gig. In fact most minister s or half get kicked out for sleeping with woman in the church. !!! its true. ck
chuck kennedy
11/Nov/2009 43If you dont beleive about ministers check the scandals on st louises joyce meyer ministries she make $12 - to 20 mil per year. look her up ck
Don Roulo
11/Nov/2009 44THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!! ALL VETERANS!! YOU MAKE THE SUCCESS WE ALL STRIVE FOR POSSIBLE BECAUSE OF YOUR SACRAFICE!!
Its not about the ministry Chuck. Its about being successful in your personal and professional life. I only mention ministry because it is part of my “business” as well as personal life. Some on here are in real estate and others are bakers etc. This is not about a minister or ministry it is about success in every area of your life!!
I know who Joyce Meyer is. She helps hundreds of thousands of people per year. Instead of looking at the money she makes or receives personally or through ministry as a negative, why don’t you look at it from the positive. She is being a blessing to other people and she writes books and has CD’s that change peoples lives and for doing that she is blessed in return.
It is all about how YOU CHOOSE to see it.
I choose to look at where she has come from to where she is. This magazine is about SUCCESS. She is a succes.
Did you know she was raped and sexually abused by her own father for about 6 years. She did not take the route of so many people today and stay the victim forever…”my life is terrible, nothing ever works” etc. SHE CHOSE TO BE A VICTOR NOT A VICTIM. I do not know all the details of her ministry, but I know she has blessed many more people than you and I probably will ever help. I am sure she is not perfect and if you listen to the media about any topic in today’s world you are doomed for defeat. My wife and I have personally been blessed through her encouragment and teachings. Just as we are blessed by SUCCESS MAGAZINE, Darren and all the others who contribute.
I have counseled with people in the situation you are in Chuck. Your mindset and your heart are hurt, broken and bitter. Until you change from a negative to a positve outlook you can’t go forward and achieve success.
One last point about what ministers drive or their moral failings. Maybe ministers in St. Louis are different than the hundreds I know personally. 95% plus percent drive cars and live in homes less than or equal to those they serve in their communities. Of the hundreds of ministers I personally know…they work harder and longer than most people do in their communities. You just see them at church and think thats all they do…NOT TRUE. As far as moral failings…I am saddened when I hear of such things. As for me…I do sleep with a woman from our church…MY WIFE. And so do the vast majority of ministers I know. One woman…their own wife.
This is your problem Chuck. You focus so much on the negative it outweighs the positive. Out of 100 ministers or businessmen…4 have hurt someone, did someone wrong financially or had a moral failure and you see only those. What about the other 96 who don’t. Why don’t you look for the positve instead of the negative???
Go open the door for a lady today. Take a neighbor some homemade cookies and ask them what you can do for them. Thank a Veteran today!! Buy them a meal!! Do something to focus on something good. I
I have been very close to where you are at. NOTHING is good in life. NOTHING works right. NO ONE responds. I know this…I am thankful for what I have in my family and those around me. I am thankful that tomorrow is a new day and it brings with it new opportunities for sucess in my marriage, my health, my family and my work.
MY ATTITUDE DETERMINES MY ALTIITUDE!!
C’mon Chuck, shake the dust off your feet of what hasn’t worked or who has done you wrong and start fresh EVERYDAY. You can’t change yesterday and you cant foretell what tomorrow will bring, but you can CHOSE to make today the best day of your life.
I can say this all the while a friend of mine is in the hospital in Kiev, Ukraine from a heart attack. A missionary who serves others everyday. He left this country to go where they have frequent blackouts and lack of water and heat in the winter to GIVE of himself and his family. I am awaiting word as to his condition…BUT I know today is the best day of my life!!
Whatever has hurt you let it go and start with a clean slate!!! God created everyone with a desire to excel, conqueor and achieve a great destiny!!
C’mon Chuck…pick yourself up by your bootstraps and get on the horse that threw you off and ride ‘em till you break him!
Don
Sheila
11/Nov/2009 45Your comments are great words of wisdom.
Thanks for all the work of ministry you do.
Jon
12/Nov/2009 46Darren and Don, Thank you both for the article and your posts. You may not change CK’s thinking but you have enlightened me and thousands of others during this process. We all open our eyes and awaken when we are ready to make that choice. Some are still asleep and not ready to get up yet. I am thankful for people who are willing to share positive ideas and activities they have used that have helped them become more successful and grow into a better person. I love Jim Rohn’s philosophy about setting a goal and achieving it through hard work, learning and growing. He says something like, “The big goal you set and eventually achieve is great but it is nowhere near the importance of the improved person you become from your journey to that destination”. Thanks again!
Raymond J Bertrand
12/Nov/2009 47Great article Darren. I might be afraid to wear the stopwatch because of what it would reveal about my time spending habits. I am as guilty as the next person when it comes to frivolous activities (stress relieving as opposed to income producing). I am astonished at the amount of time (the stopwatch is clicking) that Chuck Kennedy has spent writing volatile, vitriolic verbiage about your article. The very last page of Success magazine always has ‘10 Actions You Can Take Right Now”. Most of these actions take less time to do than it takes to scribe a response to you… and most would definitely advance you toward your goal or dream.
I am guessing that Chuck does not have a concrete goal or dream which he is working toward. Your ‘STOPWATCH’ idea is nothing more than a tool (and a good one at that). The more tools we have in our tool box and the more we utilize those tools the faster we will reach our goals providing we have them written down in the first place.
If Chuck were to spend some quality time concentrating on what he can actually do to better his life instead of putting down people who have done it… there is a possibility that success would be just around the corner for him as well. I have no assistants. By applying success principles I more than tripled my income in less than three years. I work hard, study hard, take extra courses and apply myself constantly to achieving my goals. I sometimes fail to achieve the results I set our for myself but when I look closely I realize it is no one’s fault but my own.
Remember this idea. When you are pointing a finger at someone else, three fingers on your hand are pointing back at you.
Raymond J. Bertrand, RAS
Registered Addictions Specialist
Suzanne
18/Nov/2009 48Darren, as a result of your post, I bought a stopwatch today. I think the idea is brilliant & I can’t believe I never thought of this. When I was practicing law I had to keep track of my time but never thought of using a stopwatch, & never heard of any other attorney doing this. Now I have a great tool to tell me definitively how much time I have spent on income producing activities. Thanks!
Rob
25/Nov/2009 49Chuck
Yes the mortgage industry is tough right now. However, a ton of mortgage officers made a ton of money over the past 7 years. If you were successful as a mortgage officer before the huge downturn then it is probably best for you to find a new industry since the mortgage industry will be very difficult the next two or three years. Find anther sales job out there and use your sales skills in that profession. Every company needs good salesmen and probably would like to have someone with experience in sales.
Now getting to Darren’s article. It is very easy to say that doesn’t work or that’s stupid. Question: Have you actually tried to do the suggestion?
Darren is not saying not to talk to fellow co-workers. He is saying realize for yourself after working 8, 10, 12 hours at the office how many hours have you spent talking to potential clients or closing business.
For example your a loan officer. If you spent two hours calling potential clients for loans that would count as two hours of work vs. spending two hours complaining about how difficult the mortgage market is to a fellow co-worker. That’s not productive.
Follow a simple sales plan: Talk to a lot of people and see what happens.
Jay Paterson
01/Dec/2009 50Ahhhhhh, the magic of free speech. I am grateful we have the opportunity.
I subscribe to Darren’s comments, and have been successful doing what I love to do for over three decades.
Here’s what I have found over all this time.
I’m really really good at two or three things.
I love doing them.
And I’ld do them all day long, for free.
Why? Becasue I gain more energy doing them, than I expend doing them.
The energy I get is positive and constructive feedback from my audience.
The freedom I get from doing these three things, and the revenue I get from doing them so well,
gives me the capability to hire wonderful individuals.
These people love to do the things I do not love to do.
They’re pros.
Their efforts make us all more valuable to those we deal with.
We dont need a stopwatch any longer.
We just use the time we are allowed to guide those who rely on us,
to build solutions that are valuable to them.
Concentration on doing only what we love to do, keeps us focussed, positive, effective,
all of the time.
Thanks Darren,
Jay Paterson,
Empowered Wealth Canada
Karen Shumka
05/Dec/2009 51Well done good and faithful servant. And thank you.
Karen Shumka
05/Dec/2009 52Well done good and faithful servant. And thank you. For every word. For every recording. For weathering every challenge. And for influencing thinking on our planet in a way I bet you can really see now from your FRESH perspective and it’s totally putting a fresh smile on your beautiful face.
N. E. Hernandez
06/Dec/2009 53This is a terrible loss and I share your pain. I was introduced to Jim Rohn via Success Magazine and anticiated his contribution to the CD each month. As a matter of fact I was disappointed that the January issue did not feature him. His teachings are edifying and presented with the right amount of authority and humor. We should treasure his contribution to America and honor him by making this the most successful year ever. Nadia
John Del Vacchio
08/Jan/2010 54Sounds like Chuck has never taken step one, personal accountability for his own life. If he put half his energy into doing the drills instead of crying like a loser, he might get somewhere. Chuck rhymes with time waster
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