[From SUCCESS magazine, January 2010 Publisher's Letter]
Over the last 10 years, how’d you do? Are you living the life you envisioned for yourself? In 1999, when you were watching the ball drop for the new millennium, is this the life you pictured for yourself back then? Ten years ago did you think you would be richer and healthier, have a better marriage and more friends, experience more joy and have more peace of mind than you do now?
If so, it’s time for a turning point.
You’ve probably heard the definition of insanity—doing the same things over and over and expecting different results.
If you don’t want the next 10 years to be like the last, then now is the time to do something different.
Humans are unique. We are the only species who can completely change the course of our lives. Ants can’t do it, alligators can’t and lions can’t. If a goose wanted to fly west instead of south for the winter, it couldn’t. All other animals besides humans are directed entirely by impulse written into their genetic code. As a human, if you don’t like the story of your life thus far, you can rip up the script and write a completely new one.
Ask anyone who has achieved great success in life—there was a turning point, a time when they made a clear and resolute decision that from that moment forward, their life would never be the same. They drew a figurative line in the sand and separated the patterns of their past from their new vision of themselves and the life they were committed to leading. Some make that turning point at age 15, some not until they’re 50; some do it several times throughout their lives and some never at all.
My challenge to you is this—now is your turning point.
This year, this month, this day, this moment. What you have accomplished so far is only a fraction of what’s truly possible for you. You are far more powerful, capable and gifted than you allow yourself to be. The only thing separating you from your grandest vision of your life is courage. Muster the courage to declare that right now, this year is your turning point.
This issue of SUCCESS is dedicated to helping you kick-start 2010, and we bring you 44 innovative ways to do just that from experts and readers (page 52) and in my article (page 66). And to get you thinking about your life’s purpose, we interviewed Alicia Keys, who has dedicated her career to inspiring others and offers insights on making a difference with your talents and finding your purpose (page 46). And Marcus Buckingham (page 28) provides tips on finding the strengths you will need this new year and beyond.
Make a decision.
When the clock strikes midnight 10 years from now, you’ll be able to look back with 2020 hindsight at this moment and this year as your pivotal turning point for the dream life you will be enjoying. Kick-start your 2010 and let the grand adventure begin!
-Darren Hardy
I want to help you make the next 10 years of your life the ABSOLUTE best 10 years you’ve experienced yet. Here’s what I’m going to do, starting January 5th, I’m going to walk you through a proven life planning process over the following 8 weeks, right here on this blog – and your desktop – completely free.
Posting twice a week, there will be 16 installments and I’ll guide you step-by-step, through the education and development process.
I’ll give you all the worksheets, planning documents, video and audio support tools you’ll need to make the transformation and achieve your BIG goals over the course of the next 10 years!
Mind you, these ARE proprietary documents and resources and will be secured and only be made available to those who register for email updates in the upper right corner of this page. Be sure you are registered for updates now.
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Cathy Montoya
01/Dec/2009 2I am 58 years young. I will be following you. thank you. I am not happy right now and I am not pleased with my present state of affairs. The next 10 years will come and go soooo fast. I want to be in a better position then I am right now.
Janet Parkhurst
01/Dec/2009 3I’m with Cathy. For the last 10 years my life has been a new Hellenium. And I accept responsibility for it all. I’ve held myself back, I’ve fallen and NOT gotten up; I’ve been lazy, scared and defeated. I had more punch in my 20s. At 57 years of age, it’s time to grow up. Count me in.
Graham
01/Dec/2009 4Hi Darren!
On December 31, 2008 you set me on a new course in my life, it was one of the days that turned my life around. As 2009 closes, I reflect with gratitude for all you’ve shared with me.
I can’t wait for your 10 year plan. This year has been tremendous and if it’s a taste of what’s to come, then let’s get going!
Thank you Darren.
[DARREN HARDY] Glad to have you on board, Graham! I’m with you: let’s get going!
Cathy Montoya
01/Dec/2009 5Wow Janet
You expressed it exactly. Thank you! I know it won’t be easy because doing the same thing over and over produces that rut. Sooo I am ready to dig out and I to am taking responsibility for my position in life today.
Sanjay
01/Dec/2009 6There were several turning points in my life. The first turning point came at the tender age 12, when I decided to fulfill my father’s dream of having his own house.
This is what struck me: My father told us that he cannot own house for our family in this life. 13 years later I fulfilled his dream. In the next 10 years, I bought him four more houses and two for myself!
What I have found in my own life is that this “thinking and believing in ourselves” really works. Whatever we decide to achieve we can achieve. It has nothing to do with our age or our genes or where we live.
Like many success.com visitors, year 2009 has been one of the best year for me and I am looking forward for 2010!
Good luck to Cathy and Janet. I sincerely wish you achieve whatever you want to achieve in the next decade.
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Grace
01/Dec/2009 8Hi Darren,
I am so new to success magazine but not to the world of inspirational books. I am a dental student who is so excited about life and the success it offers those who seek it. I am so glad I jumped aboard and can’t wait to tell my story 10 years from now.
Thanks for offering the time to guide us become who we dream to be.
Grace
[DARREN HARDY] Welcome to SUCCESS, Grace! Can’t wait to hear your story 10 years from now. Good Luck!
Marcos A. Rondineli
01/Dec/2009 9In 1999 I realized I had earned, honestly, one million american dollars during my 45 years living, 40 working for it.
Twentyth century gone and a decade latter (I loved the way you mentionned the sound of 20 10) here I am, yet the same person, but 3 dollars or so on all my possessions and about a thousand years (or more) away from my past life of doings.
I would say I lived in the last 10 years everything I’ve lived before except repeating any of my past actions.
A trully hard to acchieve change of perspectives, indeed, able to shock anybody around me, as… a matter of fact… happened too.
A good question there derived should be why do I feel much freer now, a totally passive person against life from before?
Happier? I don’t really would know how to answer this, but certainly much freer than before.
Ready to go, I would add.
pam perry
01/Dec/2009 10I love your mag and the CDs are awesome. YOU introduced me to Jim Rohn. Never heard of him until YOUR mag. Alicia Keys is a great choice 2010. Yaay!
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Jonell
01/Dec/2009 11Thank you for the inspiring words. My life has changed dramatically this year and I needed to hear these words and quit sitting back and letting life happen. The next 10 years will be different!!!! I am so excited. Jonell
Cheryl
01/Dec/2009 12At age 41 I had a turning point…and I said those same words. Referring to the previous 18 years where I was stuck in a variety of ruts, I said “I want the next 18 years of my life to be different than the last 18.” And, wow, my desire has come to be!
And, the process continues…now, at age 53 I sense I am at another crossroads, another turning point. What I find so curious is that even though I’ve been through this reinventing myself thing before, it feels like brand new territory, uncharted waters. The landscape is wildly different than the last time, that’s for sure!
I look forward to what you’ll offer over the next 8 weeks. Thanks, Darren.
Cal Phillips
01/Dec/2009 13Thank you Darren! For the last 9-10 months, I’ve been looking forward to 2010, but _Really_ on the edge of my seat, looking forward to the 16 installments starting Jan.5th.
Repeating through blogs and social media outlets that I have 32+ years experience as a Painting Contractor, just recently did I come to the realization that I was an Authority on the subject. Having success in our house painting business over the last 2 decades, I can only imagine what strengths will be learned in the following weeks and months to improve even further & prepare for the future.
Cal @PaintingDenver
Tracy
02/Dec/2009 14Hi Darren - I appreciate your offer and will accept kindly but I couldn’t wait. When I started getting your magazine I decided to change, you already offer so many tools that have made a HUGE difference in-my life. It started with Lance Armstrongs article and I began running every day. My health has improved - that was 6 months ago.
But recently it clicked - how powerful your current tools are. I want to share this with you & your readers - Money has been a huge thing lately - causing fights with my husband (we were considering splitting in 20101), my firm, my life, health - huge. But I kept asking myself WHY - I am really smart, we have tools, opportunities, what is it about me - I am doing something wrong. I read about the top 100 Millionaires in Canada and the top 57 were Billionaires and the list grew!
Last months interview with T. Harv Eker OPENED me up to what if what he said was right and I needed to change how I was thinking. So I went and spent my last $20 on his book and began reading - that day my husband & i had another fight - the ones that make you sick - well I went to T. Harv Eker web site and he had a course starting the next day and I received free tickets (Because I bought the book). So I said to my husband would he go- as scared as we were we DID it!
Our life has changed - forever. We walked away saying OH My - we have a plan, tools, we have ideas, we met people, we the list is goes on. BUT Darren it was because of you. You interviewing him, You talking about his tools, you introducing a successful person and you expressing to-your readers that I - ME could do it to.
Our marriage is back on track, we are on track - THANK YOU
[DARREN HARDY] What an amazing testimony Tracy! That warms my heart and fires me up! Thank you for sharing your great successes!
Veronique
02/Dec/2009 15Dear Daren,
Turning 48 soon and single parent for over 15 years, I had my share of life challenges too. A little over a year ago, my life changed too. In fact, life changes in cycles for my life changed for better around 40 also. Today, I am grateful for all the things that I have in life and I am proud that my children turned out being close to me and having great values. Since over a year, I am working hard in making gradual changes from being an employee to being entrepreneur. I don’t have to tell you that it is not always obvious for someone who has always worked for a system, but I’m doing it - I’m jumping in the boiling water.
Just like for Tracy, I have had the chance to meet new authors such as T. Harv Eker. What an incredible book. I do plan on attending his life changing conference too.
So thank you Daren, for all the rich reading material that you are providing us through Success Magazine.
Your magazine is helping me tremendously through this transition. I have been carrying around a small notepad in which I transcribe all the things that I want to remember. I am already in my 4th notepad.
All the best,
Véronique
Drew
02/Dec/2009 16To think back ten years ago, Y2K and all the fears and wonders. I don’t believed, at that time, I knew what I wanted my life to look like ten years down the road. But I do know what I want my life to look like ten years from now. I am more focused, goal oriented and yearning for fun and success in my life. Count me in. Ten years from now I want to be able to say this is when I drew my line in the sand.
[DARREN HARDY] Yeah, I still have dehydrated food and can goods I stockpiled for the big Y2K Armageddon! I’m not buying the 2012 voodoo either! LOL!
Dianah
02/Dec/2009 17Darren, finding Success magazine has been of tremendous value to me. I am one of the throngs who lost a job during this recession. Such an event inevitably brings many many changes for the one directly involved and those around her/him. Success magazine is so very uplifting and packed with good thoughts and ideas that I can’t help but feel inspired when reading it. Thank you for the monthly inspiration! I will be tuning in to your 2010 offering with enthusiasm!
[DARREN HARDY] Dianah, you are very welcome for the dose of monthly inspiration! Can’t wait to share more with all of you in the new year. 2010 will be a great year all around!
Sandra
02/Dec/2009 18Thank you!! This was right on time.
Sallie
03/Dec/2009 19Darren, I am typing this comment with a lump in my throat. After reading the previous comments, I feel like I need to share, too. My husband and I have owned and run a commercial real estate company for 21 years, working side by side We raised our 3 children, while we were doing this. (We just celebrated 29 years of marriage over Thanksgiving.) We built it up from a 2 person company to a 25 person organization and now back down 14 people, with 11 of those being full time. This has, by far, been the most devastating year we have ever experienced. My husband is the most optimistic person I know and has been an avid student of self-help books and motivational books/tapes/seminars since he saw Tony Robbins on stage in 1990. That marked the beginning of the change for us. We survived the 90’s and that was tough and I guess looking back, that experience has allowed us to draw strength to help us survive what we are going through right now. Our downfall was never having a clear picture of our future. We just rolled along with the waves of success that we were experiencing. In 2000, we thought we got smart. We pared down our assets, thought we were living smart. By the mid 2000’s we got lulled back into owning too much, taking on too much debt, thinking this ride was going to last forever. Then that wave dropped us flat on our faces. We began scrambling to hold everything together; keep everything status quo - much to our detriment.
A year ago my husband subscribed to Success Magazine; remembering it from the past when it was just a small (in size) magazine his father used to get. A year later I can say, “I don’t know what we would have done without it.” Every issue has something of worth. We listen to the CD’s over and over again. ( The one with Wayne Dyer was exceptional.) We hear something new each time. We got our kids (1 in NYC and 2 in CA) signed up for your Seeds of Success emails to try and keep them motivated during these hard times. We share our magazines and CD’s with them, as well.
I can honestly say, I don’t know where we (and our business) would be right now, if it weren’t for your magazine and your continual emails full of hope and support. Thank you. So many people are doom and gloom these days. It is hard enough to keep yourself pumped up, much less your entire office.
But here is where we draw the line in the sand. We have finally learned we can’t do it for them. Through all the training we have provided, the pep talks, financial support, we have practically depleted ourselves. In the face of our financial challenges, we are finally developing a clear picture for our next 10 years. I will be 67 and he will be 62. We want to enjoy those 10 years and each other. And we don’t want to see 21 years go down the drain. Please count us in on Jan. 5th.
[DARREN HARDY] Sallie, thank you so much for sharing your story with us. It takes great strength to make the decision to change your life for the better and I applaud you for it. Looking forward to sharing this journey with you in 2010!
Rodolfo
03/Dec/2009 20Darren,
Congratulations on your already successful magazine for it has helped a lot of people’s lives and it has nurtured my mind and soul when everyday nurturing was needed. W. Clement Stone and Napoleon Hill would be more than extremely joyful if they happened to know who we had now at the magazine’s helm.
I’m 26 years old. No job. No car(recently lost it due a broken transmission) and I have a whopping amount of $80 bucks in the bank, with no other assets whatsoever under my name and an ever increasing debt amount of more than $20K due the marvelous power of compound interest. Credit card is maxed out, now my credit is low and there’s no way they’d lend me another loan to continue paying my tuition, especially in the current credit market.
I don’t tell you this so you can pity me, I don’ need it nor want it. It is what it is. I tell you this for I’ve decided to let 2010 be MY year. I’ve decided to take a look at my life and make a commitment to excell and achieve success in all areas of my life. I have to come to realize that if I don’t do it, nobody will do it for me. This is not time for me to cover myself with the blanket of self-pity, sadness and depression. This is no time to play the deceitful game of blaming others nor time to come up with excuses that only cloud even more my judgment, will anf habilities. This is time to fight myself and claim victory, for we all know we are our worst enemies.
Thank you for being a guiding light in this foggy night, and thank you peers for sharing your comments and for being of the same mindset in this vast sea of conformity and mediocrity.
Wish you the best to you all.
Annette
03/Dec/2009 21I am so looking forward to your ten year plan. I was on the right track but three years ago I lost my son and since then I have been unable to get back on track. Three years ago I had to discover a new normal and I am still working towards that so following your plan will help me motivate and begin again to follow my dreams. I have been a Success reader since I started in sales 25 years ago. It has helped me be a self starter but as you can imagine I have not been able to lift this fog. Everyday is a challenge and when I receive your blogs I always feel uplifted. Thank you for helping me move forward. Oh and Merry Christmas to all.
Glenn S.
04/Dec/2009 22I think I had my turning point three days ago at a funeral. A very close cousin of mine passed away much too soon, at age 53, of cancer. I am the same age. His funeral, while very sad, was also highly inspirational. It was packed with hundreds of people who confirmed what I already knew - Dale was an awesome man who lived life FORTE!!
I want people to attend my funeral one day and have them say ‘Glenn made a difference in my life!’ As a result, I am currently making a list of changes that I want to make in my life so that I can achieve what my cousin did in his life.
I’m going to participate in your offer, Darren, to further this ‘new me’!
Tracy
05/Dec/2009 23I want to add something - I read your posts and I understand that it has been challenging for all of us. Last night an old habit kicked in - fear - doubt - bla - bla - bla. (As I mentioned above - my husband & I changed focus at one of T. Harv Eker seminars - but in this seminar we received a great tool!)
At the seminar they handed out big thick rubber bands to be placed on your wrist - when you think a negative thought- quickly SNAP your wrist - than gently rub the wrist with a POSITIVE thought.
Day one we were snapping every minute of the day - our kids thought this parent torture was great. Now we catch ourselves in the pattern and stop the thought before it happens -so today I will be reading more of Success (just got my new magazine) - writing, goal setting because I know I am in a vulnerable state and it is my job to push myself through.
The point is - find little things to help you change each and every day - they add up. Just like pennies in a jar!
Tany
05/Dec/2009 24Actually there are no time so don’t feel needless of acting. In my case doing what I really want clock pointers doens’t beat, the rhythm of my heart is what guides me. Life is perfect, and if you have a lot of tasks to do, people and world upset you, attention because you are near to discover something amazing!!! It’s true. Experts say that failures become success… that’s because they are named experts! Lol What I can say to yourself is the truth is inside of you… When you read something like this and you really understand my message, that means, some time ago, you known this but you didn’t paid attention. That’s your potencial!!
Tany
05/Dec/2009 25“Ask anyone who has achieved great success in life—there was a turning point, a time when they made a clear and resolute decision that from that moment forward, their life would never be the same.”
Perfectly clear. Love it!
Sydney
07/Dec/2009 26The Turning Point for my life was July 8 2008 that day I made a decision to live my life not anyone else’s . Today I wake up and, say “Yes to life” and I finally have a thought of my own. I read something you said, “If you think it, Ink it” and I chuckled because I have been doing that since July 8th. I have discovered that I can write and that I am creative it has opened up so many doors for me and today I can walk through them. The next ten years of my life are a mystery but I can assure you that that my goals are attainable, it will not be for money, fame or EGO it will be for me.
Your on my Gratitude list!
Caroline Palmer
08/Dec/2009 27From one of your UK readers (hope there are many!) I can’t wait to follow your Best Year Ever programme, although my turning point was this weekend on hearing the sad news of Jim Rohn’s passing. What a legacy he has left - just as my own father did - I am in the process of writing my eulogy which has fired me up to make so much more of my life from now on. I’ve had a lovely decade since 1999 in many ways but spent far more than I’ve earned and am now seriously paying the price.
In the late great Mr Rohn’s words (or in fact his own mentor Mr Shoaff) “Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better. Don’t wish for fewer problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less of a challenge, wish for more wisdom”
Thank you Darren for a wonderful ‘hit’ of inspiration every month, my car is stashed full of those great CDs, love ‘em so much!!
RUTH
13/Dec/2009 28This is great information which is going to change my life towards the direction of growth and improvement.
Robert Beatty
16/Dec/2009 29Darren,
I look forward with much anticipation to your blog and the ten year plan. I am also signing up for Jim Rohn’s one year program which you recommended.
I’m fifty and want to plant the necessary seeds now for my sixities, which I know will be here before I know it. I feel like much of my life I have coasted, not really giving it my all. Not that I haven’t accomplished things, I have, but inside I know that more is possible if I step up my game in a consistent manner.
Among other things I am an actor and want to draw a line in the sand right now, right here so that in 2010 I can free myself from the needs of a day job while also securing my financial future.
I don’t have to be a “star” to be happy so long as I’m working. The life of an actor is a great one, but for most it isn’t financially rewarding regardless of your talent. Building my plan B and putting money to work for me is key.
Through your magazine, as well as Mr. Rohn’s newsletter I know its possible, but I have let fear and procrastination have their way too long. I want my freedom and I’m ready to fight for it.
As Mr. Rohn suggested in his writing on “The Formula For Failure And Success” I am looking a little further down the road, making the future an important part of my day to day decision making.
This is probably way too much information, but I hope to get married at some point during the next decade! The track I have been on has been ok for a single man, but definitely won’t work for someone’s husband!
Let’s get it on, so my future wife will be pleased!
Annie B, Alargi
16/Dec/2009 30The word is COURAGE as you rightly mentioned; no better word could have been used. I have never regretted reading the articles in Success and I always look forward to it in my inbox. Just regrettably, I don’t have any credit cards to be buying your CDs and other materials as in Africa (Ghana), this is not a widely accessible thing like the mobile phone. However, I look forward to the 2010 stuff and above all, THANKS IMMENSELY because I always have something to refer to.
Errol Moo Young
16/Dec/2009 31I’ve achieved some things, but always felt I was coasting, not giving my all to my goals. I’m joining your course to make sure the next decade will be my most successful.
Erik
22/Dec/2009 32Don’t get ahead of yourself ,much as the year 2000 was the final year of its decade, century and millenium, 2010 (not 2009) is the final year of this current decade. There is no year zero in our calendar. You’ve got one more year kids !
Tracy
22/Dec/2009 33Darren is offering you a gift - why can’t you say thank you?
It always amazes me on those who miss the point! Erik why are you in this group? In all honesty ALL the posts are about change and doing something different - whether it is 2000,2009,2010, 2015 pick your number - does the number really matter?
Read the words of the people who have shared their hopes, desires, loves, passions, failures and try to understand it is through this concept we/ they will create change.
To all of you - what ever number it is - I look forward to growing with you all, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
sean job
06/Jan/2010 34Darren, my girlfriend and i are both doing this together but for ourselves, I, we both need a change and i hope this will help, She is my best friend in the world and we of course all have issues. Now I’m looking forward to becoming who I’m capable of and watching her do the same. It will be very rewarding to see the outcome and watching her do the same…. happy new year everyone, lets put this 2010 on its ear and never look back
Helen Williams
13/Jan/2010 35Hi Darren- I am working on worksheet 7, and am wondering if I missed something. Under the weaknesses at the bottom you talk about my “main goal in life”, but I don’t see it brought up anywhere before. That seems like a really important thing to think about. Am I missing a page or something? I am loving this entire process, very thought provoking. Helen
Susana from S.G. CA
18/Jan/2010 36I am so grateful for your magazine and the CDs, especially this CD from your December issue where you talked about this subject. The day I first heard it in mid-December I was feeling really down and out about myself. I really believe your message was meant for me and an answer to prayers. You helped me realize how much I had accomplished from 1999 to 2009 and how much I had to look forward to in 2010 and the new decade. I had just completed my graduate degree in 2009 after going back to school in 1999. In 2009 I began the work of starting my own company and the rest is for me to make it what I will. You helped me to count my accomplishments and blessings and know that I was on the right track of pursuing my dreams. Thank you so much!!!
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